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53-Year-Old Can't Stop Watching The Market, So Dave Ramsey Tells Him To Just Buy Real Estate Instead

MarketDash Editorial Team
17 days ago
A caller to The Ramsey Show had everything going right—paid-off homes, successful business, retirement accounts—but couldn't stop obsessively monitoring his stock portfolio. Dave Ramsey's advice was simple: if you can't stay invested, stop investing in stocks and stick to real estate instead.

There's watching the stock market, and then there's watching the stock market. One is prudent portfolio management. The other is basically doom-scrolling with your retirement savings.

David, a 53-year-old from Charlotte, North Carolina, fell squarely into the second category. When he called into "The Ramsey Show," he posed a question that sounded simple but clearly came from a place of exhaustion: Do I really need to invest in the stock market at all?

Here's the thing—David wasn't some financial disaster case. He and his wife had followed Dave Ramsey's "Baby Steps" for years. Their primary home? Paid off. Their rental property? Also paid off. He ran a successful business, had IRAs, a Roth, and by every conventional measure, was doing fine. Except for one nagging problem: he couldn't leave his money alone.

"I have made many mistakes pulling it out, putting it back in," David confessed. "It's cost us a lot of money… I want to watch it every day. Multiple times."

That's not investing. That's surveillance. And expensive surveillance, at that.

The pattern was painfully familiar. Every market dip triggered panic. Every rally made him want to time the peak. David knew this behavior was sabotaging his returns—he admitted that if he'd just left everything untouched, he'd have significantly more money now—but knowing and stopping are two different things.

Ramsey's response was characteristically blunt.

"If you are 100% gonna jump in and out of it," he said, "stop doing it. Just stop… and go buy some real estate."

No sugarcoating. No elaborate strategies to manage the anxiety. Just a straightforward assessment: if you can't handle the ride, get off before you hurt yourself.

Ramsey was quick to clarify that there's no universal law requiring stock market participation. But the real issue wasn't about choosing between asset classes—it was about understanding why one felt safe and the other didn't. "This is an intellectual exercise," Ramsey explained. "Learning something new that you don't know today."

To drive the point home, Ramsey shared an example from his own portfolio: a mutual fund with an 80-year track record averaging 12.2% annual returns. "That's more safe than your rental house," he said, "statistically, mathematically." But statistics don't comfort everyone equally. The key is internalizing that data the same way most people naturally trust real estate—because they've lived around it their whole lives.

That emotional comfort comes from tangibility. You can walk through a house. Drive past your rental property. Watch the neighborhood change over time. The value feels real because the asset is physical. But stocks? They're just numbers on a screen that flash green and red, creating the illusion of losing money in real time—even when you're actually fine.

"We become emotionally comfortable with real estate because we're familiar with its history," Ramsey said. "We grew up with it."

The stock market operates on similar principles—long-term growth, cyclical fluctuations, eventual appreciation—but it requires trust without the visual confirmation. "You should be able to do the same thing with the stock market," Ramsey told David. But if that mental leap isn't happening, forcing it will only lead to more panic selling and mistimed entries.

Ramsey emphasized one crucial point: the only people who get hurt on roller coasters are the ones who jump off mid-ride. That's exactly what David had been doing, repeatedly, and it was costing him dearly.

Warren Buffett has issued similar warnings about emotional fortitude. "Some people are more subject to fear than others," he noted at a 2020 Berkshire Hathaway shareholder meeting. Buffett has famously said that if you can't stomach watching your portfolio drop 50%, you probably shouldn't own stocks. For him, successful long-term investing isn't just about patience—it requires genuine emotional stamina.

Fear, Ramsey suggested, often stems from lack of understanding. "Knowledge gives you calmness," he said. The more you learn about how markets actually work, the less terrifying the fluctuations become. But until that knowledge clicks, staying in an investment that keeps you up at night might be doing more harm than good.

For some people, that means sticking with real estate they can physically see and manage. For others who want real estate exposure without dealing with tenant calls at 2 a.m., there are now platforms offering fractional ownership of rental properties, allowing passive income without the landlord headaches.

Whether your comfort zone is bricks or brokers, the deeper lesson remains the same: the best investment strategy isn't necessarily the one with the highest theoretical returns. It's the one you can actually stick with through market cycles without sabotaging yourself. And if that means stepping away from daily stock market monitoring and focusing on rental properties instead, that's a perfectly reasonable path—especially when the alternative is compulsively checking your portfolio multiple times a day and panic-selling at the worst possible moments.

Sometimes the smartest financial move isn't learning to tolerate something that makes you miserable. It's recognizing what works for your psychology and building around that instead.

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53-Year-Old Can't Stop Watching The Market, So Dave Ramsey Tells Him To Just Buy Real Estate Instead

MarketDash Editorial Team
17 days ago
A caller to The Ramsey Show had everything going right—paid-off homes, successful business, retirement accounts—but couldn't stop obsessively monitoring his stock portfolio. Dave Ramsey's advice was simple: if you can't stay invested, stop investing in stocks and stick to real estate instead.

There's watching the stock market, and then there's watching the stock market. One is prudent portfolio management. The other is basically doom-scrolling with your retirement savings.

David, a 53-year-old from Charlotte, North Carolina, fell squarely into the second category. When he called into "The Ramsey Show," he posed a question that sounded simple but clearly came from a place of exhaustion: Do I really need to invest in the stock market at all?

Here's the thing—David wasn't some financial disaster case. He and his wife had followed Dave Ramsey's "Baby Steps" for years. Their primary home? Paid off. Their rental property? Also paid off. He ran a successful business, had IRAs, a Roth, and by every conventional measure, was doing fine. Except for one nagging problem: he couldn't leave his money alone.

"I have made many mistakes pulling it out, putting it back in," David confessed. "It's cost us a lot of money… I want to watch it every day. Multiple times."

That's not investing. That's surveillance. And expensive surveillance, at that.

The pattern was painfully familiar. Every market dip triggered panic. Every rally made him want to time the peak. David knew this behavior was sabotaging his returns—he admitted that if he'd just left everything untouched, he'd have significantly more money now—but knowing and stopping are two different things.

Ramsey's response was characteristically blunt.

"If you are 100% gonna jump in and out of it," he said, "stop doing it. Just stop… and go buy some real estate."

No sugarcoating. No elaborate strategies to manage the anxiety. Just a straightforward assessment: if you can't handle the ride, get off before you hurt yourself.

Ramsey was quick to clarify that there's no universal law requiring stock market participation. But the real issue wasn't about choosing between asset classes—it was about understanding why one felt safe and the other didn't. "This is an intellectual exercise," Ramsey explained. "Learning something new that you don't know today."

To drive the point home, Ramsey shared an example from his own portfolio: a mutual fund with an 80-year track record averaging 12.2% annual returns. "That's more safe than your rental house," he said, "statistically, mathematically." But statistics don't comfort everyone equally. The key is internalizing that data the same way most people naturally trust real estate—because they've lived around it their whole lives.

That emotional comfort comes from tangibility. You can walk through a house. Drive past your rental property. Watch the neighborhood change over time. The value feels real because the asset is physical. But stocks? They're just numbers on a screen that flash green and red, creating the illusion of losing money in real time—even when you're actually fine.

"We become emotionally comfortable with real estate because we're familiar with its history," Ramsey said. "We grew up with it."

The stock market operates on similar principles—long-term growth, cyclical fluctuations, eventual appreciation—but it requires trust without the visual confirmation. "You should be able to do the same thing with the stock market," Ramsey told David. But if that mental leap isn't happening, forcing it will only lead to more panic selling and mistimed entries.

Ramsey emphasized one crucial point: the only people who get hurt on roller coasters are the ones who jump off mid-ride. That's exactly what David had been doing, repeatedly, and it was costing him dearly.

Warren Buffett has issued similar warnings about emotional fortitude. "Some people are more subject to fear than others," he noted at a 2020 Berkshire Hathaway shareholder meeting. Buffett has famously said that if you can't stomach watching your portfolio drop 50%, you probably shouldn't own stocks. For him, successful long-term investing isn't just about patience—it requires genuine emotional stamina.

Fear, Ramsey suggested, often stems from lack of understanding. "Knowledge gives you calmness," he said. The more you learn about how markets actually work, the less terrifying the fluctuations become. But until that knowledge clicks, staying in an investment that keeps you up at night might be doing more harm than good.

For some people, that means sticking with real estate they can physically see and manage. For others who want real estate exposure without dealing with tenant calls at 2 a.m., there are now platforms offering fractional ownership of rental properties, allowing passive income without the landlord headaches.

Whether your comfort zone is bricks or brokers, the deeper lesson remains the same: the best investment strategy isn't necessarily the one with the highest theoretical returns. It's the one you can actually stick with through market cycles without sabotaging yourself. And if that means stepping away from daily stock market monitoring and focusing on rental properties instead, that's a perfectly reasonable path—especially when the alternative is compulsively checking your portfolio multiple times a day and panic-selling at the worst possible moments.

Sometimes the smartest financial move isn't learning to tolerate something that makes you miserable. It's recognizing what works for your psychology and building around that instead.