If you're in your 20s and feeling overwhelmed by conflicting advice, entrepreneur and financial guru Mark Tilbury has something to say: your willpower matters more than you think, and most of what you'll learn comes from screwing up.
The Willpower-to-Success Pipeline
On Saturday, Tilbury dropped 35 hard-earned lessons on X for twenty-somethings trying to figure out this whole adulting thing. The 58-year-old's advice? Start with the basics.
"Work on your willpower. You'll never reach your full potential if you can't focus for long periods of time," he wrote.
Then there's the producer-versus-consumer problem. "Producers > Consumers. Put more content out than you consume, or you'll be robbed of your time and attention," Tilbury added. Translation: scrolling won't build your career.
He's also big on relationships trumping raw intelligence. "Who you know > What you know," he emphasized, calling networking the real key to unlocking opportunities.
Perhaps his most interesting take: embrace the mess. "Most of my success came from my failures. I wish I knew this sooner," Tilbury noted, encouraging young adults to make reversible decisions quickly and learn from mistakes rather than waiting for perfect clarity.
Other highlights from his list included combining unique skills to stand out, protecting your reputation like it's currency, starting retirement investing immediately, and avoiding the twenty-something trap of buying flashy cars. "Skip the flashy car. It's a waste in your 20's. Instead, buy used & reliable," he advised.
He rounded out the advice with reminders to choose life partners carefully, show up on time, and build motivation around vision instead of fear.